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Life-Changing Book on Procrastination - Review written on January 14, 2008
Rating: 5 out of 5
16 customers found this review helpful.
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I give this book six stars, as it is helping me (an overwhelmed workaholic) to overcome a lifelong problem with procrastination. Really. Just from a book, albeit a great book!
The author, Neil Fiore, defines procrastination as "a mechanism for coping with the anxiety associated with starting or completing any task or decision." Procrastination is a strategy to obtain temporary relief from stress, not a character defect or a personal or moral failure (as I'd thought before reading this book).
The book addresses key issues underlying procrastination so that by the time you have finished with the book you are prepared to overcome the habit of procrastination in your life. For example, for me one obstacle I've struggled with (but didn't know it before reading the book) was "the fear that you must deprive yourself of leisure time in order to satisfy some unseen judge". Guilt-free play was something I never did; I rarely played at all, and if I did I felt guilty. The author shows you how to build guilt-free play into your schedule so that you are paradoxically MORE productive rather than less. Another example is I figured out that I viewed my projects as reflections of my worth as a person; the book gave me self-talk so that I can separate my self-esteem from the work I do. These are just two examples; I'm sure that whatever your issues with procrastination, you'll find them addressed here, and then be equipped with the tools to overcome them.
Here is a great quote that the author uses from William James: "Nothing is so fatiguing as the eternal hanging on of an uncompleted task." If you're like me and want to end the tyranny of your "To Do" list once and for all, you will absolutely not be disappointed!
Highest recommendation!
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Scheduling fun helps you get more work done: weird but it works! - Review written on October 16, 2007
Rating: 4 out of 5
29 customers found this review helpful.
The Now Habit: A Strategic Program for Overcoming Procrastination and Enjoying Guilt-Free Play originally was published in 1989, so perhaps everyone besides me has already read this book ... but I found it incredibly helpful in diagnosing my current procrastination problems with finishing my book and getting done some nagging stuff on my to-do list.
Pros:
- Practical tools to diagnose your problems (keeping a procrastination log).
- The "Unschedule" tool to schedule your fun time, to keep you motivated to get your work done.
- Acknowledgment that most of us actually only have 15-20 hours a week for the big projects, once you plan for meetings, email, phone calls, showers, kids, sleeping, and the rest of life.
- Great for self-employed people who have wide open but incredibly busy schedules.
Cons:
- Really, you've heard a fair amount of the stuff in this book (keeping track of your time, setting goals, etc.) but I found it was presented in a way that was helpful to me.
- If you are not a self-motivated person, not sure that scheduling "fun" time will get you motivated to do work; especially if you are not sure what you should be working on.
- The Now Habit contains a bunch of procrastinator stories that frankly, I speed-read through because reading about other procrastinators make me upset, but those stories may be very helpful if you feel alone in your habits.
What I've already used:
- Realized that the reason I was procrastinating on finishing my book (it was 98% done) was avoiding delayed failure. In other words, when I finish my book it will be published and I could fail at selling the book, so if I never finish, I can't fail. Nuts.
- Used the "unschedule" to figure out I only have 15 hours a week for major projects.
- First day I used the "unschedule" I got all my work done by 2:30 PM. I didn't know what to do with all that time -- it was weird and great!
This book delivers - Review written on August 23, 2007
Rating: 5 out of 5
15 customers found this review helpful.
I bought this book several weeks ago and have now read it twice. I've recommended it to many other people at my work. It's a book not just for procrastinators, but for anyone who occasionally finds Mondays depressing, and who feels that work is taking over their lives. In my opinion, the most powerful concept Fiore offers is that of scheduling (he calls it the "unschedule") non-work time; i.e., errand time, living time, fun time (especially fun time), down time -- and sticking to that schedule. The idea is two-fold: it gives you an accurate idea of how much time there actually is to accomplish your work, so that you're more likely to take advantage of the present moment, and it means that you will always have something to look forward to -- and soon -- apart from whatever task you're dreading. So you say to yourself, "Yes, I'm going to work on X, which I don't like much, but that's just part of what's on the menu for today, and once I get some meaningful work put in on it (which Fiore defines as being as little as 30 minutes of quality time), I'll go on to something else, and I will do it without guilt." That makes it more likely that you will actually put some work in on the task, because it no longer is so monumental; you now see it in perspective of everything else you do. It also means you're less likely to find something distracting to do just to avoid the main task, because you're always aware there's good stuff to look forward to. So no "need" to surf the Web just now; you've scheduled plenty of time to play later. Fiore emphasizes that you need to have guilt-free play, separate from work, in order to produce quality work. Although I don't have a particular problem with procrastination, I have found the book quite liberating; it certainly makes me feel better on my morning commute, because I know the day isn't going to swallow me.
One of the best books on procrastination - Review written on July 31, 2007
Rating: 5 out of 5
12 customers found this review helpful.
Literally changed my life, or at least the way I think (in a positive way). I am only 3/4 of the way through, so can only speak to the first half or so, but it has been so excellent to this point that I already decided I am going to buy a copy for my Mom, Dad, and sister and brother who all have procrastination issues (must be genetic!)
I have read several other books (re: procrastination), and none of them affected me the way this one did. Made me aware of and changed the way I think about myself, for one, but also presented SOLUTIONS, not just "this is what you are doing and why you procrastinate" which is where so many books like this stop.
Just great stuff, can't recommend it enough. I plan to see what else the author wrote (hopefully this is not a one hit wonder type situation)
Hopefully the rest of the book is as good as the first half.
I should also note, I think this book is definitely not geared towards those who just put things off every once in a while, and would like to be better organized (again, which is where a lot of other procrastination books focus). This one, and probably the reason it reached me so effectively, is for people that have procrastination problems that go beyond the norm - consistent behavior that could/would likely result in losing your job, relationships, and just unhealthy living in general (mental and physical). Fiore seems to treat the issue from a mental health perspective, not just "let's try to get you more organized!" Very impt distinction, and if you don't have a SERIOUS, life...hampering problem, I would probably not recommend this.
5 stars from me
Procrastinators unite tomorrow.... - Review written on July 01, 2007
Rating: 5 out of 5
7 customers found this review helpful.
This book, was as good as a lifesaver for me as I am working on my first ever publication as a student. It helped me overcome a lot of anxieties invariably of my work by letting me know that it's just work and it's not connected to my self worth.
Paraphrasing this book, the amount we procrastinate tells us how much we really think this task matters to us, how much we connect it with our own self-worth, with our own importance that we have assigned this task. I did a bunch of highlighting in this book and this is one of those that you end uo highlighting over and over again because it opens up new avenues at every page you turn.
I also find the idea very novel of putting things that you will look forward to first (the unschedule) and then working all your work activities around the things that you want to look forward to.
I enjoy reading different perspectives on the same topic because it really does point out the different approaches to a topic so that I can integrate the approach together and apply it to my life and now I am currently trying to obtain a copy from my school library of the book Procrastination and Blocking to read further into procrastination. Getting Things Done: The Art of Stress-Free Productivity is another book I am currently reading that is very very informative for the layperson but it requires an active approach, on a side note, most good books require an active approach to them anyway. GTD is more applicable to do business professionals, whereas the NOW habit worked out really well for me because I am student in psychology and with an intention to become a professor one day, I could relate to the examples that were present in this book. And, finally I do want to add and mention that there is a choice, if there is work and if we are going to do it, then we can CHOOSE to either spend time on procrastinating about the work or do a LITTLE bit of it and be already a step ahead of where we would have been if we were procrastinating.
Good book, but may not be the first one to read . . . - Review written on May 07, 2007
Rating: 4 out of 5
40 customers found this review helpful, 1 did not.
This is a good book. Look at all the reviews and you will see that it is so. However, after reading it, I found that I wasn't a procrastinator, even though I felt like one. Rather, I've been acting like a procrastinator because I have been overwhelmed and things get put off because of 1) feeling overwhelmed and "I can't get to that now" and 2) not knowing what the next step is to move a given project along. After reading The NOW Habit, I went on to read David Allen's "Getting Things Done." Allen's book is fantastic and corrected both my problems mentioned above. Now I no longer behave like a procrastinator.
My suggestion is that you read Allen's Getting Things Done first. If, after getting organized, feeling less overwhelmed, and having a clear focus on what needs to happen next on any given project you STILL are procrastinating, then buy The NOW Habit. The NOW Habit gives a few great ideas per chapter while Getting Things Done provides a few great ideas per page! They address slightly different topics (The NOW Habit addresses self-discipline/procrastination and Getting Things Done addresses organization/work habits), so you may want to decide which addresses your concern most directly (or buy both!).
Overcoming procrastination by finding a better reward - marvelous! - Review written on April 26, 2007
Rating: 5 out of 5
19 customers found this review helpful.
I have been a first-class procrastinator for most of my life, for many reasons -- too many tasks, not wanting to do the task that needs doing, feeling that no matter how hard I tried my results would never match my expectations for myself. This book was a breath of fresh air. After so many efforts to "just buckle down and do what needs to be done" [and the guilt that came when I went off daydreaming again], this book gave me insights, an "unschedule", and a mantra of how to move forward.
I have extracted the kernels from the book and made them into a reminder that is constantly on my desk, at work and at home. Now, I tell myself, "I choose to start on one small, imperfect step, knowing that I have plenty of time for play." With that mantra, I can start a task, and frequently just starting takes me close enough to the finish that I do finish the task, as well. I also wrote out my reasons for tackling my work, building on the "pull" method of self-motivation, setting out why I'm doing this work, anyway -- and that reminds me of the positive results that come, not from procrastination, but from digging in and getting started.
Result? I'm working more effectively, leaving the office at least an hour earlier than was my habit three months ago, and taking at least one day off per week. Eureka! Don't procrastinate -- give this book a chance!
I was looking for practical steps and found psychological insights. - Review written on April 18, 2007
Rating: 3 out of 5
34 customers found this review helpful, 6 did not.
While re-reading "Getting Things Done" by David Allen and looking at his website, I came across a recommendation for this book. The tip came from a solid source so I bought the book. I was looking for some practical steps (like those in GTD) but found more psychological insights. That left me a little disappointed.
The book has some solid advice about the reasons for procrastination and how to move forward but it will not provide you with any lists, calendar tips, prioritization methods, or the like. It helps you to work on your thoughts and gets you to say, "I choose" instead of "I have to". It also helps to free you from the guilt of not doing and encourages you to "start".
This is all important stuff because we really do act according to our thoughts so getting those right is the first step. Regardless, it left me a little empty as I was looking for ore implementation tips to help me fine-tune a workflow system.
The bottom-line: If you don't know where to turn and are overwhelmed, this book might just help you break through. If you got things moving in the right direction and need some "black-belt" skills, look elsewhere.
This is the book you are looking for - Review written on February 26, 2007
Rating: 5 out of 5
27 customers found this review helpful.
A couple of years ago I decided to attack my procrastination problem. I ordered several books, some very expensive ones. None were that helpful.
Later, I ordered this book, and it is the book that finally helped me. If you have a serious procrastination problem, you need the understanding that this author brings. First, he puts you at ease, then he gives you revolutionary tools to use.
I still carry this book with me, in my briefcase. It has gotten a little ragged, with coffee stains and dog-eared pages, but I still pull it out and read many of the sections that I bracketed, as a refresher course.
Don't buy any books about "discipline." You will end up back where you started. If you are trying to solve a serious procrastination problem, I believe this is your book.
What's so good about this book - Review written on August 29, 2006
Rating: 5 out of 5
21 customers found this review helpful.
It may read kinda mushy, with all its talk of empowerment. But it has done one thing for me that no other book has. It gets to the root of procrastination and motivation problems, and you realize you are not wrong.
A rough time in Highschool and other experiences caused me to pick up a poor self image, and a lot of internalized judgemental talk. But you learn why you feel that, that other people are affected too, and that it's your life. That you need to live it. Short of getting hit by a bus, the trials of life are minor.
The suggestions on scheduling, how to manage others, and how create a new dynamic resilient sense of self worth are all good. And the simple steps you can start taking will show immeadiate improvements.
I encourage anyone dealing with the problems of paralytic worry, judgemental self-talk, and poor self image pickup a copy of this book.
The best self-help book I have ever read. - Review written on August 12, 2006
Rating: 5 out of 5
42 customers found this review helpful.
Let me introduce this book by chapters first:
Introduction.
The author gives the definition of procrastination.
Chapter 1. Why we procrastinate.
The authors state the symptom of procrastination. If you don't know whether you are a procrastinator, you need to read this chapter and some simple solution is given.
Chapter 2. How we procrastinate.
It tells you how to record your time log. In addition, it tells you the most important step out of procrastination - creating safety. The hypothetical situation is a must-read.
Chapter 3. How to talk yourself.
Before or during work, you also movitvate your self in a negative way, this chapter tells you how to talk to yourself in a positive way.
Chapter 4. Guilt-free play, quality work.
This chapter tells you how to change your attitude and motivation of work. If you always motivate yourself by using pressure or threat or punish, you need to read this chapter.
Chapter 5. Overcoming blocks to action.
Some tools in overcome the blocks to action.
Chapter 6. The Unschedule.
Nearly all "organised" person will schedule their work, but nearly nobody will schedule their play. This chapter provides a system on how to enjoy guilt free-play.
Chapter 7. Working in the flow state.
Actually, if you have learned hypnosis, you will not find this chapter helpful. The self-talk wording on how to relax yourself is exactly the same as the words used in hypnosis. But, I would like to stress that the method works.
Chapter 8. Fine-tuning your progress.
This chapter address some potential problem when you are practicing the system.
Chapter 9. The procrastinator in your life.
The chapter tells you how to deal with procrastinator in work or daily life. The method on P. 193 is a must read.
In conclusion, I have learned the followings after reading this book:
1. Humans are not lazy in nature.
2. how to movtivate myself.
3. How to talk to myself.
A reviewer just give a 2 stars and say that the book "The procrastinator's handbook" is better. I have heard the audio version of this book and I find that this bk is just not useful.
The book "Getting things done" is good. It provide a tool to organize your daily matters. However, if your mindset on work does not change, no tools can help you. So, read "the now habit" before reading "getting things done".