While there is no accounting for difference of opinions about a film, sometimes there are core themes that viewers need to face. And "The Story of Us" holds up a wonderful, rich, powerfully performed, and subtle mirror of marriage and family that may not be what a viewer really wants to see reflected back to them. As a father of three sons who was essentially "forced" to accept divorce as the various therapists "solution," I strongly feel that this movie would have made at least a dent in their arguments. That is to say, "The Story of Us" dares to DEFY the politically, socially, culturally, and "modern" solution to marital "unhappiness" and stagnation: it "allows" the couple, Ben Jordan (played with great aplomb by Bruce Willis) and Katie Jordan (portrayed with enigmatic dexterity by Michelle Pfeiffer) to rediscover themselves and what is important to them.

Marriage and family--the most critical social institutions of all societies--have become near "cultural lags" in todays world of rapid change and emphasis upon "taking care of yourself first." For most people today, fifteen years of marriage is "enough;" and the Jordan's feel the pressures of giving up to find "personal happiness." "The Story of Us" takes a subtle, sardonic, insightful look at how this couple struggles. It shows the power of "time outs" for couples: time where each spouse can introspectively examine themselves without the "pressures" of children under foot; and, in this case, without the other spouse as well. Yet, critics pan the film because they are "looking" for romance and sparks:

"Willis and Pfeiffer, who should be flinty enough to strike sparks off each other, look glum and stony about the whole affair. All in all, a compelling argument for divorce."

Well, folks, divorce is a glum and stony act, BUT such actions are NOT a compelling argument for divorce--unless of course you BELIEVE in divorce as the be all solution to boredom or being frazzled (which is what Ben and Katie Jordan are experiencing). Moreover, I can state emphatically, that I have suggested this movie to a number of couples experiencing the same things, and this movie provided them with great comic relief and a chance to really talk about their problems. As a former professor of classes on The Family, one of my primary text books was "Family Talk: Interpersonal Communication in the Family" by Steven A. Beebe and John Masterson (ISBN: 9780075548966), something I still strongly believe to be the foundation for the survival of marriage and family as institutions.

Please note, that I am not suggesting that "The Story of Us" is a self-help movie. Rather, it is a very entertaining and subtle story that reflects real life. And, even if you have a healthy relationship and/or family, I think you will enjoy this movie if you give it a chance. That includes viewing "The Story of Us" not as a romantic or love story, but a story of marriage and family.

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I really enjoyed watching this movie. As a woman who has been married for 11 years (and dated my husband for 6 years prior to marriage), I could really enjoy and appreciate the movie for what it is. It is a story about THEM and THIER relationship. I can definately relate to a lot of the different situations in the movie, and you can bet that the writers and director of this movie could as well. If you are a person who enjoys watching different types of movies, you will enjoy this one. I don't only watch one type of movie, and I find that documentaries, action, romance, sci-fi, thrillers, adventures, comedies, stand-up, even the slap stick humorous movies can be entertaining if written well. This movie was well written, acted, and directed and I absolutely loved it.

Amazing how much like a regular REAL marriage this movie is in my opinion. I saw so much of myself and my spouse that it was almost like watching us on screen. It made me laugh out loud and tears roll down my face. It's one of my favorite movies of all time. I loved it and can't imagine getting tired of watching. Michelle is gorgeous and Bruce is sexy, just like me and my spouse. : )

"The Story of Us" is one of the worst "romantic comedies" ever filmed. The writing is totally self-congratulatory, formed in precise paragraphs, and lacking in real-life spark. The performances by the actors are over-rehearsed and overwrought. The sliced-and-diced, forward and backward time frame construction is awkward and unnecessary. Don't waste your time with this movie! If you want to see a perfect little romantic comedy with Michelle Pfeiffer (and George Clooney), try the under-appreciated "One Fine Day."

Whenever I get down about my life, or think it's almost over with my husband--- I watch this , and remember what we got together for in the first place. Life is tough, and it will chew you up and spit you out. This dvd not only opened my eyes to everything, but me and my husband do our "highs & lows" everyday now and at the end of the day, I always tell my husband "I PICK US"!!!!

wonderful movie!!!!